TRUE FRIENDSHIP

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People in virtually every part of the world sometimes feel the urgeto have friends, the issue is not getting a friend but in getting a REAL FRIEND, a TRUE ONE. Some friends stays with you when you are living owk but immediately leaves you when you when you are in need. Most of the , the effort people puts in searching for a true friends fades away, why? They seems overwhelmed with the troubles of getting a good friend. Under this topi I will considering how to find a good, and real friend but first we need to consider the meaning of TRUE FRIENDS. A true friend shows LOVE at all times and is a brother or sister who is born for the time of distress.

One can be surrounded by friends but still says:" i have no friends". These simply means one can be around a lot of people but still wont feel particularly close to any of them. So, how can you determine who among your acquaintances might already be displaying the qualities of a good friend. The following will help:

 {1} A TRUE FRIEND IS TRUSTWORTHY : a true friend will never go around revealing your secret. You'll find it easy to confide in him/her. 

{2} A TRUE FRIEND IS SELF-SACRIFICING : At a point in any friendship, one person is stronger than the other, a true friend recognizes when you're the weaker one and then steps up to the plate and helps you. Of course, that friend trust that you will do the same thing when he/she needs help. Also, a true friend will be ready to sacrifice certain things just for you.
{3} A TRUE FRIEND HELPS YOU TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON : True friends will never expect you to be loyal to them or agree with them at all cost even if it means compromising your values or doing something against your conscience. Instead, they will make you do things out of your comfort zone and helps you to be more outgoing. They will always tell you the truth even if it isn't what you want to hear and give you better advice. True friends will always encourage you to accomplish your goals.
Proverb 13:20 says:"He that is walking with wise persons will become wise, but he that is having dealings with the stupid ones will fare badly." Surely you dont want to fare badly, if so, WISELY SELECT YOUR FRIENDS. Let's all try our best to be a good friend, whenever your friend needs something done, offer your help, when they need to talk, offer your ear, when they need to cry, offer your support.{Proverb 17:17}